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[TW: Abuse] Another facet of BDSM

thisgingersnapsback:

yourdisillusionment:

The male doms won’t come in to defend it themselves.  They ALWAYS send their slave girls in to defend it for them.  They often live off the proceeds of their slave girls jobs as well (although not always). Male doms are the laziest pieces of shit on the planet. They make women do all the work, including defending their “right” to be abused. It’s part of why they are able to sell submission to them as a perk - if they weren’t tied up in bed, they’d be expected to do all the work there, too. When they are tied up is the only time they get any rest or relief from the pressure at all. But the male doms keep them from realizing this is just a pattern of abuse and that the “release” they feel by being able to let go at those times wouldn’t be needed if they weren’t being abused and neglected outside of the bedroom as well as beaten inside of it.

Uhhh. Hold the fuck up.

I completely get that BDSM has it’s fair share of problematic themes, but you’re labeling absolutely everyone in the M/f dichotomy like you understand it, and you really fucking don’t.

BDSM =/= abuse. A D/s relationship CAN be abusive, but it is not, by default, abusive—the same as any. And you want to complain about the problem with men here, but you’re on a rampage to save the poor women who clearly can’t think for themselves.

Newsflash: There’s a lot of us out there that can. And don’t you fucking dismiss the voices of submissively kinky women just because you can’t handle their voices, and it’s easier for you to say there’s a man behind them making them talk. You can’t write off the voice of women telling you you’re wrong as having a man talking behind them.

Because guess what? Ain’t no fuckin’ man talking here. And you’re assuming all relationships that have any relation to BDSM are the basis of Master/slave and Male/female, and that’s just naive and untrue. The reason you probably get so much venom from female submissives is because we’re fucking sick and tired of this white-knighting bullshit steeped in your faux-concern. You talk about us, over us, like we’re not here, like we’re not able to contribute to the conversation, like our voices are invalid, because the voices of those who disagree with you are apparently just too difficult to argue against. Otherwise, why the fuck dismiss them so carelessly?

Trying to liberate women by explaining to them why they can’t think clearly with their ladybrains isn’t how you fucking liberate women. It’s how you contribute to the problem.

jfc what the hell have you been reading, 50 Shade of Ass?

Emphasis mine.

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